Aplikasi Teknik Fuzzy Delphi Terhadap Peranan Suami dalam Mengurus Konflik Rumah Tangga Bermadu Menurut Perspektif Islam
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Teknik Fuzzy Delphi, Peranan Suami, Pengurusan Konflik, Rumah Tangga Bermadu, Perspektif Islam.Abstract
Conflicts are bound to occur in married life. This phenomenon of conflict is more likely to occur in a polygamous marriage due to the involvement of various parties. The husband is seen to play an important role in the management of conflicts that occur in the marriage. Accordingly, this article presents the elements of the husband's role in the management of polygamous marital conflicts. This study is a quantitative study using the Fuzzy Delphi technique. The approach used to collect research data is a questionnaire. A total of 10 experts were involved in the formation of this element in the field of family, counselling, communication, psychology as well as polygamous husbands and wives married for more than 5 years. The results of the study found that sixteen elements of the husband's role in managing polygamous marital conflicts are accepted as a result of the consensus by the expert group with a consensus percentage exceeding 75%, threshold value (d) ≤ 0.2 and a cut-value exceeding 0.5, while one element is rejected for not fulfilling the conditions. These findings indicate that all sixteen elements of the husband's role are important for managing conflicts that occur in a polygamous marriage. The findings of this study are useful as a guide for husbands in the management of polygamous marital conflicts according to the Islamic perspective.
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